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Annie, just because I said that was the normal pattern doesn't means it fits your situation exactly.
But if you wantt o keep him, you need to keep as much positive contact with him as possible. Preferably some physical stuff also.
The way to keep a guy is a lot of contact that is very upbeat.
The way to keep a girl is a lot of contact that is more negative than upbeat. Odd but true.
So don't get all sad and mad at him on the phone. Boys avoid emotional conflict while women seem to embrace it. Haven't yall figured that out by now? Boys will avoid you if you give them a lot of emotional pain or discomfort.
And dangle positive bait from time to time . . like tickets to something he likes or activites to something he loves.
Always be flirty and a little sexy. There is very little mystery to maintaining a good relationship or the Act of Seduction it usually just comes don to good consistent Social Skills.
Good luck getting him back.
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