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Logic and emotion? Oil and water lol?
Haven't we all seen this pattern before? Boy/girl date for long time. One of them feels REALLY secure and decides to look around. So she releases her mate back into the wild, secretly thinking that he won't leave the backyard lol. Then he gets really upset when she starts moving on and tries to get him back.
But in reality, while she was free she crushed on various guys and only when those didn't work out did she go back and discover he actually left. IF she had found someone else, she would have just moved on.
Our friends do stuff like that all the time . . . good or bad you know?
So lets be nice about it.
Plus you guys are a little harsh in being like "move on!" The boy did nothing wrong here and he is not being mean. And just because he doesn't want her intruding on his new social life, doesn't mean that he has a new GF. He just has a new life, and doesn't want a surpirse visit.
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