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Regardless of what happened in the past he has made it clear that he doesn't want you to visit him. So don't. If you do you're setting yourself up for not just heartbreak, but a potentially bad reputation as a stalker that WILL come back and bite you in the ass again, especially if you have mutual friends.
And on another note: you asked for opinions on your situation. Attacking damasa for giving his makes no sense. Either accept his advice or ignore it, don't get mad at him for doing what you asked: responding.
Geez.
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It may be said with rough accuracy that there are three stages in the life of a strong people. First, it is a small power, and fights small powers. Then it is a great power, and fights great powers. Then it is a great power, and fights small powers, but pretends that they are great powers, in order to rekindle the ashes of its ancient emotion and vanity.-- G.K. Chesterton
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