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Originally posted by Shark In Skirt
Okay, you can try to do a Freudian assessment of what my subconscious is really thinking, that maybe he's just to "occupy" my time, but is that really fair? All we have here is each other's word, and I'm saying that I love him. Sorry, but whether or not that statement is true isn't for you to judge.
I already stated that I didn't want nor did I expect any sympathy. I certainly didn't expect any kind of overemotional reaction such as yours, Damasa, either.
I just wanted ADVICE as to how I can improve the situation... you stated your opinion, and then you got personal. If you have nothing to say that will help, why add to this thread? I've already said that I accept responsibility for what I did, that I don't need anybody to cry for me, and that all I want is a little advice... I don't need you to judge the validity of my feelings for this guy.
XOXO,
Annie.
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You never received an over-emotional reaction from me. I have no reason to get over-emotional, I have no idea who the heck you are and to be honest I don't really care. I'm not giving you sympathy, but it seems like a few others in this thread are. My point was YOU brought this on yourself. I don't judge your statements about you loving him or him loving you. BUt if he doesn't love you, can you REALLY blame him? I mean if you did it to you, he could sure do the same to you. And if he is possibly doing that, do you want to attempt to put yourself in that spot?
Look, I'm not trying to get personal here, so just take a step back and chill for a minute.
Don't set yourself up for hearbreak you know? So you did what you did, fine, but if he doesn't want to be with you anymore, you just have to accept that and move on. Basically what I'm saying is you shouldn't expect anything right now. Take time to step back from the situation and see how things go. If you two are meant to be, you will be. Do you kinda see what I'm getting at now?
Let him come to you.....don't go to him.