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Originally posted by damasa
I mean think about it, maybe he is just doing to her what she did to him. Because he doesn't want her to come up doesn't mean that he has "something on the side." Of course it could be, but that's not FACT. He could just be ignoring her like she did to him for a good amount of time.
I still don't understand how someone could just ignore the person they love for a long period of time like that. Maybe it wasn't reall love? Maybe he was just there to cocupy her time?
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Okay, you can try to do a Freudian assessment of what my subconscious is really thinking, that maybe he's just to "occupy" my time, but is that really fair? All we have here is each other's word, and I'm saying that I love him. Sorry, but whether or not that statement is true isn't for you to judge.
I already stated that I didn't want nor did I expect any sympathy. I certainly didn't expect any kind of overemotional reaction such as yours, Damasa, either.
I just wanted ADVICE as to how I can improve the situation... you stated your opinion, and then you got personal. If you have nothing to say that will help, why add to this thread? I've already said that I accept responsibility for what I did, that I don't need anybody to cry for me, and that all I want is a little advice... I don't need you to judge the validity of my feelings for this guy.
XOXO,
Annie.