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Originally posted by Blue Violet
IAnd while I am ranting: big southern universities that have the alumni do the cut list before any of those poor girls have a chance to go through rush. Pathetic. I do not want my alumni choosing who is my sister. I want to choose.If they are legacies great, if not great. I mean recs are great but who is gonna submit a shitty rec.? Even the nastiest person has someone who likes her and will write her a rec. You have to go buy what you think of them. Not someone else.
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This is WRONG WRONG WRONG on just sooo many levels. If you've experienced advisors that pull this isht, I don't blame you for being annoyed.
Heck, I wouldn't go to rush parties after I graduated - even if I was asked - because I didn't want to take the chance of some rushee meeting me and not liking me and not pledging. Not that that would have happened of course
but to lose a girl the chapter wanted for someone who is only around a couple times a year - I'd feel horrible.