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Originally posted by Shark In Skirt
His spring break and my spring break are at different times. He told me that IF he has time, he'll drive down to see me, but I absolutely cannot go to his school the way I used to. He didn't really specify why.
I KNOW that he's not going to make time to see me while I'm home. Should I drive up to see him at his school even though he told me not to?
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ABSOLUTELY NOT.
You should NOT, under ANY circumstances, go visit him. First of all, by saying "If I have time..." (when you know darn well he won't), he is saying that he's not interested in seeing you. Also, I think that by telling you not to come see him at school, he is really saying that he's got something going on there that you don't want to see, or that he doesn't want to lose because you show up there.
I pretty much agree with what damasa said. By ignoring him, you already showed that you're not that interested, and he's already moved on. I think it's time for you to do the same.