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I don't know what you're talking about from firsthand experience, since I just joined last semester, but I can tell from other experiences I've had what you're talking about. I think it's perfectly normal.One thing I want to emphasize is the fact that you don't have to play the same role within your sorority that you've always played. In my chapter, the younger girls have very different roles from the older girls -- the older girls often are less involved with the social aspects, not so "into" the sorority, often looked at as role models. You can change the way you interact with your sorority a lot more easily than you can change the way your sorority is.
Just don't let the stupid little things stress you out -- just because everybody else is getting their panties in a knot over something stupid doesn't mean you have to too, especially if you don't care or don't want to.
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