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OMG where was this thread last weekend when I thought the entire world hated me and I had a mental problem b/c I was sick of my sorority.......
Violets your post echoed every single thing that has been running through my head for the past semester. I don't really have any words of encouragement, except to say that I really do feel the same way and I'm sure other people do to. Here's something kinda strange that actually might make you feel better:
A very smart person said to me the other day-
You are so quick to be like, "my sisters this, my sisters that. They're my best friends. " Not saying that they CAN"T be, but think about it: you have known these people for 3, 2, 1, maybe even half a year. They might feel like your good friends, and maybe they are, but you can't be that surprised when you outgrow them. A lot of times, the people you meet in college are temporary friends. Acquaintances. And that's ok. Because the ones that are supposed to stay with you usually do. And the ones that aren't that important, that you say you really can't call a sister, you will leave behind and move on to bigger and better things. For some of those people, left behind in your college memories is where they belong.
So yeah, I am going through the same thing but I have lived in the house for 2 years. I'm moving out in May and am focusing my attention on that- the only girls I really consider my true blue friends are moving into a duplex with me and I'm really looking forward to it. They are AX sisters, so I look at it like I'm redoing the sorority thing to fit my (more mature) life. Hopefully you'll make some changes to make yourself happy, too. Good luck.
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