I can't believe I missed this thread... it's pretty interesting. I too, do not think I can break it down into ratios... I just like guys who make me feel a certain way and all of the men I have dated have been very different from each other, yet all still have been great for me.
Here are components that definitely have to be there, though:
Good looks/physique
Values/morals/religious beliefs similiar to mine
Intelligence
Ambition/Goals
Humor
Sense of style and hygiene
Friends I like
Loyalty, honesty and dedication
Also, I find it helps if they come from a good, strong family... but if they come from a rocky past, it can be okay as long as they acknowledge that it's messed up and they strive not to continue the cycle and be messed up too.
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