[sigmadiva]

I can only say "ditto" to all of what has been said before. I went through a similar phase my senior year of college. It is not that I did not like my chapter or my sorors, but I realized I had one school year to finish my classes then graduate. I was on a full four year academic scholarship and I knew that when my money was gone I would have to be gone too, but with a degree.

For me, pulling away from my chapter was hard since I helped to start it. I remember my sorors at the time were very mad at me for doing so. And I was just a little burned out on it all. We were a small chapter at the time so to keep up with the rest each member had to pull double-duty. The results were worth it, but I knew I had to get through physical chem to get my degree and that was more important to me.

Don't feel bad. You'll come out of the phase. About three years after I graduated I re-activated with my sorority and have been active since, 10 years now. I have so much fun now. I get to work on great projects and help undergrads.

Just keep your sorority in your heart and you will come back to it.