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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
I think this is assuming the sister just got fed up with the sorority, or otherwise disrespected it.........
i.e. I heard a story about a sister that had her badge taken (she'd hazed a new member of her own accord) and was so upset about it, she'd spread whatever trash she could about her former sorority....
THAT kind of girl I would not associate with.
But like Alecia, ilovemyglo's former sister, would be a great example of a good sister that just had trouble. She was everything an Alpha Gam should be -- she just had trouble. (Goll, I wish *I'd* had her in my sorority! What a lady -- she still respects Alpha Gam, gave back her letters of her own accord -- mine would have to be pried out of my clammy dead hands! -- and CONTINUES to support Alpha Gam! wow!)
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You hit the nail right on the head, HDimaPM! If a sister or new member had to leave my organization under any circumstances but continued to conduct herself like a lady, I would be delighted to be friends with her. In fact, the very thing happened to my best friend from college and I'm going to be her matron of honor in two months!
BUT...if the sister left and went around doing things like saying rude things about my sisterhood or, Heaven forbid, selling DZ stuff on ebay or something equally classless, there is no way I would want to be friends with her. But then, I tend not to hang around with uncouth, undignified, bitter people whether they have greek affiliation or not. I just feel sorry for them.