[Sistermadly]

I think it's a good idea in theory, but that quote from Malcolm X keeps replaying in my mind: the one where he says it's not his job to educate white people on racism, that it's up to them to learn what it means and how to eradicate it.

I wouldn't go so far as to say that I believe that, and I certainly won't put all of the blame on white people, but people have to be open to suggestions. It's hard to be open to suggestions when you're on the defensive, and that happens a lot -- on all sides -- in these discussions.