That hits the nail on the head. It is one thing to say "well, the right thing to do is this" and then another to realize that there is much more gravity to it, in other words "to appreciate the delicacy of the situation".

XOMichele, do you think it is only men who cheat? The situation here is a girl cheating on her man. We've all talked with him on an individual basis, and some people think it's perfectly instinctual for humans to cheat, some people think it's an outrage.


But now the silence broke, a particular loudmouth brother keeps telling everybody, and how it would be funny if the guy came by the house lookin' for a fight. It's an unstable element in a soap-opera scenario. What do you think is the best course of action now? for the house, and the cheating parties?