I saw you've only posted a few times, so I figure you're new and may not have seen some of the other discussions on Alumni Initation. Here are a couple relevant ones --
* great advice to anyone new to the concept:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...threadid=20287
* others going through what you're about to:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...threadid=26873
* two threads about the entire process:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...threadid=24090 and
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...threadid=29197