Personally, my cousin has been deployed. He is in the Navy and is also a newlywed. It is tearing my aunt to pieces because he is an only child. She has not heard from him in a while, but my grandfather told her that "No news is good news". We are unsure of his exact location and this is not helping my aunt at all. I am prayng that we do not go to war, although with Bush it surely looks that way.