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I agree with James--- it depends on whether you are male or female. Guys do not tell--they keep their mouths shut--- girls tell--ohhh--and yes girls tell after they have told everyone else!!! sorry girls, in most cases that is the truth!!!!
Guys protect each other--right or wrong.
My personal example is --- right now a friend (he's married) of my husbands--has been thinking of cheating on his wife. My husband told me this. He gave me very little details--other than, "i think joe is going to cheat on sally". My husband was at the gym with Joe the other night, he got home I asked what Joe said. He told me Joe said nothing-- I asked if he would tell me if Joe had said something-- his answer was "NO--it is safer for all parties if I tell you nothing!!!!!!" They protect each other--simple point. Girls don't guy to you mans best friend for cheating info--they won't tell you!!!
But to answer your question----- it has to be your decision. Sorry--not helpful. I am not saying I agree that guys should always protect each other--I am just saying that is usually the way it is.
It would be a tough decision--- I would think about it before making a desicion. If I decided to tell--I am not sure I would out the other party, just maybe the girlfriend--- kind of a "i think i saw your g-friend with someone else" -- guide him, but not tell all the details, let him figure that out.
-wendi
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