Why do you feel the need to make NEW female friends? What do you feel would be different while hanging with a female as opposed to a male? I'm married and my husband has a few female friends that he is really close with and that's fine. I'll be honest and say that if he all of a sudden had this new best friend who was a female, I'd have a problem with it. I have absolutely no problem with the females from his past (as a matter of fact, they've come to stay with us), but you can't trust many females. I trust my husband but I don't know if that new "friend" will try to test her boundaries. Then it would get ugly.
My advice to you is to stick with the friends you have now. It just seems a little odd that you seem to crave a female companion.
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