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I think one of the nicest things...
you can do is to sincerely be interested in what a PNM has to say. What a major turn off (and terribly obvious) it is to speak to someone who has just asked you a question and watch this person nod in vague agreement while staring into space....
ooops. I guess this part belongs in the what "not" to do to impress PNMs!
When I rushed Delta Gamma (the first time way back in 1988) I was impressed by the personal attention they showed me. They knew my name, my major, where I was from, all the things on my info sheet without batting an eye and they were genuinely warm and interesting. They got along well, they smiled and were happy. They also did not overpower the room with 200 other DGs (I went through COB in the Spring). It wasn't intimidating at all.
Now, my name on the dessert plate in chocolate, I'd have fallen off the chair!!
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