hmmm...
I don't know the %'s really but characteristics in order of importance:
1- We are good friends (or that we can be, so in other words we have stuff in common and can talk/ relate to eachother well, and he's a generally nice guy)
2-Chemistry! I suppose this is superfically "looks" but it's a bit more complicated than that.
3- common sense and intelligence. I simply can't deal without one or the other.
(Actually, 1 2 and 3 are essential. It won't happen unless they are all there.)
4- on the big issues we agree. I love debate, but it would be nice if I don't get into heavy abortion arguements with my man.
5- No mental problems/ wierd realtionship issues. This is important.
6- That he has an idea of what his values are and how he wants to live his life. I don't have to want to be in his field, but I don't like it when people just sit on their asses. If you don't know what you want to do, start trying stuff!!!
That's about all I can think of at the moment...
-M
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