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Originally posted by OneOneTwo
Most of the time, I have noticed that there are alot of topics and discussions that pertain to women. Alot of the social groups that pertain to women.
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If the majority of the members are women, it only makes sense to reach out to those members. It's hard to plan events and put together social groups in the hopes that it will attract others because in this process, you can lose the one that you already have.
And, a lot of the time, even if you do plan the events with men in mind, some of them still won't come because of all of the other reasons that you have listed.
I can see validity in some of the points made on this thread in regards to Black men and the Black Church. But, my question is, if you have all of these problems with the Black Church, why not just find another church, with members of any race, where these problems are not prevalent and where you feel comfortable? The problems with the Black Church should not keep away from all churches. This is not directed at anyone in particular.