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Originally posted by AXJules
I have no idea what to do. My friends are like, don't be so stubborn. It's not gonna kill you to be nice to him. That's great that you guys can be friends again. My boyfriend thinks I shouldn't even waste my time giving him a response.
Has this ever happened to any of you? What did you do to handle it? Is it being grown up, or a case of immaturity????
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Yes, this has happened to me...too many times. What I did do to handle it? I just went through something very similar within last year and half too. Whenever I see them now I do say hi, but that's about it, I try to keep the relations on a associate level.
You now have your new friends and a boyfriend. There's no need to look back. Don't invite that drama back into your life.
"Later that night heard a convo I shouldn't have. Basically about how they're all sick of me and my drama, didn't care if I drove in the rain and had killed myself,
b/c it would be a way to get rid of me." Wow, that made Susan Hawk from survivor look nice. Maybe, there's a tiny chance he may have changed...but I doubt it. I don't think it's worth it to see. I can't believe he had the audacity to act like nothing happened.
Keep things on a superfial level. Don't become friends with him or them, if he/they will do it once they will do it again. Yet, don't act bitter, you would not want to let them know how much it bothered you.
No, you're not being immature or stubborn.