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Its uncanny how similar my sitaution is w/yours. I'm a freshman and was just initiated this fall (I LOVE it). Right before initiation my big decorated my door, i came home one day to find my RA taking the decorations off my door. She made the comment that the phi sigs couldn't just put stuff up wherever they wanted. I told her that i was an NM and that it was fine with me that they but decorations on my door. She seemed really mad about that and i didn't understand why. I was talking to my big abt it and come to find out my RA had been initated the fall before me and had disaffiliated 3 weeks after initation. Now that i have been initiated my RA treats me WAY differently than she did before, She's harder on me about the rules and she just acts really unfriendly (before i was initated we got along really great and i almost would have considered her a friend). Its little stuff and nothing that i could really prove so there isn't much i can do about it but i am definatley moving off campus next year.
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