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I am definitely blowing steam here: i think my life would be a lot less stressful if i lived alone.
my roommate is just bugging the crap out of me. she broke up with her serious bf in december and from november to now, she has either has 3 hour phone calls/screaming matches with him or he has come over and duked it out with her either in my living room or in her room. But since the walls are paper thin, i can hear everything they are screaming about. And since they are broken up, I really don't understand WHY they are still fighting over who is seeing so and so on the side. YOU AREN'T TOGETHER! WHY FIGHT OVER IT??? I was pushed to the near edge the other night when she proceeded to SCREAM at her ex over the phone while in the living room. I gathered my stuff and left. I really shouldn't have to do that cuz I am paying for rent in this apartment, I should deserve some respect.
All last year, my roomie also had issues with money, but never got a job and sometimes was very late with the rent. Now she has a job, a few credit cards and is blowing all of her cash. She recently bought a computer that she doesn't know how to use and wants to sign up for a Cable modem. I don't have a job this semester to focus on graduation so money is a bit tight. But yet she expected me to pay for 2/3s of the phone bill because I had my dial up connection and more for the electric bill because my computer is the sole reason our bill went from $6 during the summer when no one was hear to $20 when two of us were here. Well that's all gonna change now that she logs onto the internet every time she is home.
She also used to nitpick everything from the way I cleaned the apartment, cooked my food, washed the dishes, drove, etc. Of course she doesn't put her dishes away for a number of days and doesn't help clean the apartment. In fact, I got a msg from her saying I left the sink sponge unsqueezed in the sink but yet she has not put her dishes away for the past day.
I know she is going thru some issues with her ex but talking to her is near impossible because when she is home, she is talking to him, locked in her room, or asleep. And then she disappears for weekends.
I don't wanna strain the relationship anymore by saying I can't live with her anymore cuz it's driving me nuts. I almost feel guilty because she doesn't really have anywhere to go because she is from out of state. But I just can't do it anymore. I want to move out!
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