Here's my take on the situation:
Todd and John are two of your best guy friends. Trust me, I know about falling for guy friends but one person always pulls out of it feeling weird and it sounds like you are the one that wants out. Jack sounds like your distraction. You said the whole thing about being opposites which keeps the relationship/friendship new and interesting. The reason I said that I think Jack is your distraction is because Ernie is moving out of state/is already out of state. Ernie is the only guy on this list that you said you were in love with. If it was me, I would let the other three know that all you want is friendship and try to work things out with Ernie.
Hope that helps!
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