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Originally posted by Bro2B
I guess it's true that I obviously want something. I like her enough to not have to want to fight for her affection. I can sell myself well enough, I'm a scholarship athlete and I'm vice president of my chapter so that says good things about me I guess that I can handle everything I can. I guess the biggest problem is the time crunch. I don't have a lot of time to invest in it.
And like I said before, I know the other guy. He's not a boob or anything, really nice guy, good friend of mine, just kind of airheaded. The only thing he can offer her that I can't is more free time with her. She said she didn't want anything serious, I really don't either. I obviously care, but it's hard to say what I want. Maybe a monogamous booty call? Who knows. I'm a senior though and she's a freshman so she needs to experience what college has to offer. But at first she though I wanted something serious that would settle her down. I think we're starting to understand each other better. I just don't want to compete for someone's affection and I already told her I'm not a consolation prize.
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Don't be the prize man, just be yourself. I'd just let things take course and let whatever happens, happen. If she's a freshman, she might not understand what kind of time contraints people deal with when they get further along in school, but she'll learn.
Other than that, just keep it as it has been and maybe things will change, maybe feelings will become more involved.