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Originally posted by Bro2B
I'm not falling into that friend situation. We've already hooked up, and I asked her what that means to her - I don't want something that serious and she said she didn't either, but maybe she just doesn't make a big deal out of sex, I think she may have issues, though.
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I'm not knocking you here so let's get that out of the way first.
You say you don't want anything that serious? Come on man, step back a little and let it all sink in, you want something or you at least have feelings (in a way to possibly want something). I know this because otherwise there would have been no purpose for this post. Just look at it from the "big picture."
If you want this girl to like you and you know this other guy, man, you have hella advantage. Give her or offer her things he can't. SELL yourself to her, make her want to be with YOU. Basically, pimp your shit, show her who you are, what you can be, what you want and/or are looking for.
She may like the both of you, but one of you will end up with her, if you want that one to be you, pursue her.