[hopefulgreek]

Some perspective. I rushed just in the fall through formal at UF (over 1000 girls started out). I am very happy in the house I am in! Fortunately it all worked out well in the end. I was dissapointed by my initial cuts.
I also wish the legacy myth would be dispelled- legacies to NOT always make the house (yes to round two but that's all) I have three alpha chi friends in my pledge group whose mother's were all Chi O's.
I also wish a PI Chi would never ever say, "You are choosing us as much as we are choosing you." Not true, if this was so you wouldn't get a card back from the houses first telling you where you could go. The process would be more mutual like all the houses ranking you and you ranking all of the houses!
*mk*
ps- I suspect I was also cut for academic reasons, although I wish I could have been told that more so in the beginning. My PI Chi's told me that the gpa listed didn't matter but obviously it did. I also wish they didn't cut on a grade gpa point due to different schools (I had a vastly different backround than most of my peers.)