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James to your quote "She's not even being mean to you" You have no idea how much she has done to me this semester and last semester to last a life time.
I will give you one example of how crazy this girl is Last semester I decided to go to the bar with her and another sister. I decided to leave the bar to go and go to the after party at a fraternity house that maybe 2 blocks from the bar. Well, they decided to go over there yelling and scream at me that I have to leave. At the time I was the only active sister in the house. They were not even aloud to go over to that house without an active. And for them to disrespect me and cause everyone in that house at the time to think that they were crazy. Both of them were going crazy, I'm not going to let to non-initiated sisters tell me an active what to do. My sorority now has the name "psycho sorority" because of them. The guy I was seeing at the time decided that we needed a break because my "crazy sister" broke into his house and his room to tell him he had to leave his own room. She has never even appologized to me for that incident.
This girls is rude, bossy, annoying, and an overall pain in the butt. I did the best thing for me. Everyone one has different ways of dealing with things and this was the best for me. Now I do not have to worry about her calling me and bothering me ever again. This was not out of hatred, I needed a break from her and she just did not get the fact that I personally told her face to face last semester that I needed a break from her.
To make matters even worse, she in now banned from one fraternity house they do not want to see her at their house ever again. Alot of the people that she has met basically have done the same thing that I have done. I'm not the only sister to have recently told her to please give them space.
The reason why I wanted to give her a letter or send her an e-mail is because if you try to talk to her, she zones out on what you are trying to say because it is not as interesting as what she's talking about.
So, I gave her the letter. She seems to have understood it. The content of the letter was not mean just that I needed her to understand how I felt because she didn't hear it before.
But thank you all for you comments and advice.
Annice22
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