Thanks Floridagirl. I appreciate the honesty. Fortunately, I know that my choices are limited because of my age/class standing. (BTW, my university is more than half nontraditional - over 22 yrs old - students.) I know almost 100% going in of 3 groups that will automatically cut me - I've only ever seen them bid freshmen. One of these groups, I would love to be a part of, but I wouldn't be crushed if I weren't. Thankfully, I'm not an 18 year old girl who expects the top house on campus to automatically bid me 'cause I'm just so darn nice.

Most defitely not a campus celebrity.
Crystal