James is right-NEVER PUT ANYTHING IN WRITING!!!
I honestly have a hard time understanding WHY a person can't just say-"I made other plans." Where is the need to explain ANYthing? Just because you are in the same sorority doesn't mean you have to do things together or even LIKE one aother for that matter. All it means is-you support her when she needs help and you never degrade her in public. If you have problems with her as an individual, don't associate with her outside of functions.
It's no biggie and doesn't need the drama of a confrontation. Maybe you want to smack her??? Just walk away and retain the respect of your OTHER sisters.
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