HG, I feel ya'. Telling someone about our issues is one thing, but dang, can't I speak as though he exists? I no longer have this problem (
), but when I did it was irritating. I realize now that his problem with me talking about "us" EVER (even the most TRIVIAL of things) was only a sprout of a bigger problem. But I
would like to know WHY the HECK that 'ism even exists... If eveyone did that, no one would ever have anything to talk about.
IMHO, there is nothing wrong with "Girl, yeah, My Man and I went there last week, it was fun!" ... But there is a problem with "Girl, my man doesn't satisfy my
needs" ... that's something he and I should only discuss.
[This message has been edited by novella000 (edited August 22, 2001).]