Novella000,
I understand where your coming from because my boyfriend has these same feelings. I try to respect it but sometimes it is hard because some of the things that I tell to other people are so trivial to me, but when he finds out he gets upset. I don't get why some guys are so personal. To me if your doing what you have to do in the relationship then you won't have to worry about what your mate maybe discussing because you know that she is happy and she will only be telling the other person positive things.
Now, about talking to someone of the opposite sex about problems in the relationship is unhealthy. I 've tried this and usually the dude is on your side because he has underlying desires so he may not give good advice.
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