You just have to remember that the greek system, especially at smaller schools, needs to be unified if it is going to stay alive.
I think a good way to ease tension is to do fun events with other soririties (like throw parties or mixers or do community service), that will allow you to get to know eachother on an individual baisis. That will make being greek better than being XYZ or ABC, and allow you to recruit more members.
Since you are the bigger sorority, the other girls probably don't like you or are jealous because if it. You need to be big about rivalry, and telly our girls to take the time to socialize at the events you have together.
Good luck!
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