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Originally posted by James
But still a lot of this seems to come down to settling down with the one that you are with when you want to settle.
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SETTLE? Or settle down? We should never settle for less than what we want.
That seems to be true for a lot of people and I believe it sets relationships up to be less than all they can be...
Mr. Amycat and I have discussed this before--how fated our meeting and the development of our relationship has seemed. How we were both ready for love for awhile, ready to settle down and build a shared life with someone we loved. But we didn't just settle for any of the yahoos we met along the way to meeting one another because they just didn't fit the bill.
Then we met--and magical doesn't even come close to describing our connection and how well we get along.
I do believe in "The One" and in "Soul Mates" But I don't believe we have just one soul mate, I think we can have several and they can take the form of a significant other, a friend, a family member, etc. Sheesh, when I had my beloved English Mastiff Cinnamon (God rest her sweet soul), I swore she was my soul mate...
