lauradav,
this was what I referred to:
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Originally posted by Firehouse
Unfortunately, it was well known that the sororities they wanted to join would only take freshmen women (the quota/total system). They could have contributed much to the struggling chapters, but they had only two years and did not want to spend their energies in what appeared to be long-term, difficult projects.
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I read that as "I only want to join the big popular sorority where everything will be rosy, because I really don't want to bust my butt too much." A group of older (20 years old!

) women with experience of college life and knowledge of the campus could do a great deal to turn a struggling chapter around, and gain personal satisfaction as well. I wish that more sororities would do as DG is doing (see other thread) and reach out to these women with a concerted effort rather than give up on the chapter.