Heh, my experience was my rho chi promising to call me with the details of where to meet for the first-round and then flaking on it. Guess what? I missed the first part of rush. When I finally got a hold of her to ask about the missing information, she encouraged me to drop out of rush because "...no one will know who you are".
Needless to say, I dropped.
Yay. What a supportive rho chi.
I mean, she could have said, "Say, why don't you attend the second round and see how it goes? If you feel uncomfortable, like you missed too much, then you can drop out." Or somethng to that effect.
It's as if she wrote me off from the start and didn't even give me the chance. I would encourage current and future recruitment counselors to do their best to be inclusive and understanding of everyone.
.....Kelly
