James I just read your post and I think some people misunderstood me-
What I believe is exactly like Serendipity- which I saw. They were thrown into each others paths, but it was up to them to make it work. I agree with that. I think us meeting will be like 'cosmically done' or whatever, but if I want to keep up the relationship it will be up to me. Ala my fear about Mr right being Dennis in 3rd grade who pasted my hair to the wall
I never said there's anything wrong with loving more than one person or that you can't, I think a lot of people are capable of loving a lot of people. All I'm saying is what I choose to believe, although I see al ot of other sides, is that The One will be bigger, better, and more ideal than the rest. And that you might get stuck along the way but for some of us it really is possible.