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Old 01-28-2003, 11:30 PM
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Have you confronted her about it yet, have you told her how you feel, because if you haven't then you should instead of just holding a grudge, or being up set and not letting her knwo why. I know if one of my brothers was mad at me for any reason I would want to know why no matter what the reason.

Guess there are major differences between males and females. I don't think I'd mind one of my brothers dating one of my ex's. Can't really say until it's happened to me.

If it was a messy break-up then just out of common sense and courtesy she shouldn't. But, as far as my chapter goes, we've had brothers go out with another brother's ex. We've also had brothers go out with sisters of their ex's.

You have to think about it for a minute, you may be heart broken, but, how can you say as a hard and steadfast rule that the 2 people may be meant for each other? How can you say that they aren't supposed to fall in love, get married, and live happily ever after. Just because things didn't work out between you and your ex doesn't mean they won't work out for your sister(or in a guys case brother) and your ex. It's alright to be hurt. But aren't we also supposed to be happy for our brothers/sisters if they've found someone, whether we like them or not.

What if your brother/sister went out with someone you just couldn't stand, not an ex, just someone that you know that you absolutley hate, how would you feel then?
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