[valkyrie]

Originally posted by XOMichelle
Not once in those three realtionships did I decide that they were the "one" or that I wanted to marry them. In fact, although I liked them all a lot (and fell in love with each for different reasons). The time I spent with them let me discover the things about them that I liked and disliked, and more importantly led me to learn things about myself and what I want in my life.

I don't think that everythting happens for a reason, but I do think you can learn from your life, and that is what I try to do.

Well said!