This whole discussion is seriously freaking me out (and distracting me from my 10 page research paper)
I am a firm firm believer in the idea that everything happens for a reason. I have had so many instances in my life that seemed like really weird coincidences, I can't help but think that fate was hard at work. So, I believe that The One is out there, but when I'm supposed to meet him, etc, has already been decided. So, like, I don't have to worry about breaking up w/ my current boyfriend or where my job will take me b/c some way or another, he's going to be "dropped at my feet". What I do with him once I meet him is in my hands.
With that said, OH MY GOD!!!!!!! This is so stupid to worry about but the idea that The One is simply Some Guy who's available when I want to get married freaks me out!!
Here I am going, oh it's meant to be, he's IT, when he's really just some dude that's convienient
Wow, i have a lot to think about for the rest of the day.