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I guess I'm one of these rare (and I may not be, which would be refreshing) people who don't date around, or even want many relationships. I got into the game late (by society's standards). I didn't have a boyfriend until late into my 20s. But, even when I wasn't dating, I knew that I never wanted to have many "notches on my bedpost". I see myself going through one heartbreak (having my heart broken), one break up (breaking someone else's heart), and then, meeting my husband. I like the idea of not belonging to too many. I'm too special for that (hey, I know I'm a catch)!. My mom only had 3 boyfriends before meeting and marrying my dad. Sure, it was in the 1950's and 1960's when dating around was considered taboo, but I fell in the love (pardon the pun) with the idea of having a few deep, meaningful romances, and then meeting my soulmate.
I guess I'm Goldilocks in a way: he's too needy, he's too distant, HE'S just right!
I know, I'm a hopeless romantic. And I wouldn't change a thing...
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