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When new members are initiated many older sisters feel that they need to give their new sisters a break. After a long pledge period, some sisters feel that the newer ones may want a chance to step back and spend time with their non-sorority friends whome they have spent almost an entire semester neglecting. This could be why they don't call you every chance they get.
Another reason, could be that some of your sisters are just set into a routine. I'm in a local sorority as well as we have a very small house ( 5 girls live there). I live in the house and myself and the girls are all very close. We don't mean to not invite people out, but it happens all the time, when just the girls in the house go out. We never noticed until we were called on it by some other sisters. We had just gotten so into the routine of just going out together, that we thought no one else wanted to join us. It could be that these girls are just overlooking you. Why don't you ask them to tell you when they're going out next so that you can join them.
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