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Originally posted by James
And then I thought about love. I haven't been alive long but I have been in love with more than one Girl friend.
Ok then. My questions for you are this:
Have you ever been in love more than once? And cast yourself back. Strong love.
Because we all know marriage can be a timing thing, so is that a factor in being "the one"?
And if thats a factor, doesn't that negate the idea of "the one"? That one and only soul mate? Your other frigging half?
Maybe "the one" is someone you are in love at the time you are ready to marry?
Chew on that gristle lol. But seriously I have to be making some sense here right?
Should we admit that "The One" is in most cases the person you are in-love with (I hope) or at least with when you decide to marry?
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I have had the pleasure of both being in love and loved by many.
I'd have to say that timing was the key factor in why we didnt stay togther.
We dated for a couple of years. Although one can easily say that i was the reason why we didnt stay together, I argue that human nature took over and I only did what every other male my age in college was doing at that time.....getting all the a$$ I could.
She called it cheating.
Now, had we met a few years later things might have been different.
With that said, James, I think that "The one" is actually the flavor of the season and if you actually stay with it long enough....you get married. See, "The one" kinda grows on you. It's like a car. At first it's a new thing.....smells good, isn't worn out and you still keep it up.....after a lil while though....you get used to it.....it becomes a part of you. Eventually you just decide to keep her.