I have to agree with LovelyIvy, most people that ask whether they are too picky, are. End of Story.
And some people are extremely picky . . . or so they say. But we all know many people that have given us their laundry list of qualifications on what they want in someone else. There is a whole thread on here about it. Really way too long girls
And then we see them a month later with the person they were making fun of . . .
Almost every guy says he loves slender girls to exclusion . . . in reality they date a range.
Never believe people's press releases lol.
I ramble: Whitechocolate, if your only requirement is that they are independant of their parents financially, you are not picky at all.