CTFU...One of my friends, who is a second year law student, says that they laugh at the underclasswomen who dress up to hang out at the law library. They know that they are not law students because the law students don't dress up to go to the library.
I guess it depends on the circumstances whether or not you're picky. If you want a man with an income higher than yours because you want a man who will provide well for you, that's different than wanting a well-off man just so you can eat at the best restaurants. But, maybe that's just me--I'll be a poor architect anyway. To each his own.