Thread: AM I Too Picky?
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Old 01-27-2003, 05:02 PM
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So bitter, so young.

Most women who ask if they're picky already know that they are. You say you want certain things, but there's also a whole long unwritten list. Before you say what you want, make sure that that list is really accurate and you're not just saying what sounds good. Like if you know you SHOULD want someone stable and dependable, but you LIKE pretty ass bad boys, then you see your problem right there.

Also, why are you not meeting these kinds of men? Are you putting yourself out there? Do you go to the right venues (for lack of a better word)? Ask your friends for recommendations, lol. (That's why I like having guy friends, there's no competition when they introduce me to a cool guy)

There are plenty of men who can meet your requirements, if those truly are your requirements. You just have to figure out where they're at and then put yourself there too, lol.
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