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Ok, our sorority is local. So, we don't have a formal rush, but we do have something similar in which you attend different events throughout the week. I attended all of the events. The other pledges did not. I fulfilled all of my duties and more. I show interest, give ideas, voice my opinion. I'm not quiet, but i'm not talkative. It's a few sisters that do enough of that for all of us. But, it's crazy, because I am proud to be apart of them, but then there are things that I see that need to change. It's a lack of motivation (slacker was a bit harsh) amongst some sisters. But, I was really mad that I had no idea about the meeting nor the two day sisterhood events. I will just have to stick closer to my Big Sister, although she failed to notify me too and we spoke to eachother days before the events. It gets me mad b/c everyone is telling about how much fun they had, then they ask "Where were you at?" and i'm like "Nobody told me anything." Be honest, you would be highly pissed too. It's like I don't even exist. Everytime something good happens and I think that we are all bonding, some crap comes and blows it to pieces. I think of them all the time, I sat there yesterday (before I knew there was a meeting) and made out Valentine cards with candy for all the members. This isn't required of me, but I did it out of the goodness of my heart, then I turn around to find that they aren't even thinking of me. That really hurts.
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