[33girl]

ZChi, you are thinking of someone else, but I do remember the post.

pledge, all I can say is don't jump to conclusions. I remember right after I initiated some of the sisters had a spontaneous house party and I didn't hear about it - I was hopping mad. It turned out my roommate never gave me the message. Not everything is a mandatory event. Not everyone in a sorority is going to do every single thing together. That's life. However, meetings and mandatory events should be known by everyone, preferably a calendar should be handed out at the beginning of each semester. This should be a duty of the recording sec in your chapter bylaws.

If you have a house, I would recommend living there next year if possible - it really does help you feel part of things.

However, the fact that you've just initiated and are already criticizing sisters concerns me. Once again, no one is going to like everyone, but for one of the newest members to be outright critical and say the sorority has a lot of slackers is just not cool and if you've verbalized it, that may be why your phone isn't ringing.

If you feel like you alone are being left out, bring it up in a respectful way at the next meeting. People may not be aware of how you feel.