Its definately a big change. When I graduated I went back home thinking that all my friends would be coming back. Nope, all changed their minds and went elsewhere. People said why dont I just move back to Ann Arbor, but everyone is gone from there too. I miss my sorority sisters a lot too. Its just not the same being an alum. An ADPi I work with was talking to me and we both want to be involved in our orgs. on a real active level still. I am starting an alum group, but even that's still not the same. But you live and move on